Success brings to mind something different for everyone. For some, it’s a powerful position, a large home, or fancy cars. But over the years, I’ve realized that my vision of success doesn’t align with those traditional images.

Growing up, I knew friends whose families looked successful from the outside. They lived in large homes, had everything a kid could want, and vacationed on the ski slopes every winter.

But over time, something became clear: the kids with the biggest houses often had parents who were never around. I used to wonder—what’s the point of having all that stuff if you’re not around to enjoy it?

The thing about desire is, the goalpost keeps moving. If you’re honest with yourself, you might notice it too. We’re taught to keep climbing the ladder, to focus on what’s next. Promotions are celebrated—but only briefly—before we’re asked, “What’s next?”

In chasing the next raise, title, or possession, we often sacrifice our well-being and time with the people and passions that matter most. If we’re always chasing, we may end up at the end of our lives having never paused to enjoy what we worked so hard to build.

According to World Bank data, an annual income of $50,000 puts you in the top 1% of global earners. Let that sink in. Then ask yourself—are you happy with that fact? If not, do you really think a higher number will finally make you feel fulfilled?

From a psychological standpoint, I’d argue: no, it won’t. There will never be “enough.”

Instead, appreciate what you have. Build a modest life you can truly enjoy. Years ago, I traveled to Brazil and was struck by the spirit of the people. Many had very little, yet they were some of the most vibrant, joyful souls I’ve ever met.

Take a step back. Evaluate your path. You may already be in a position to enjoy life more than you realize.

To me, that is true success.